Today marks two years of sobriety. For me, it isn’t a celebration—it’s another step on a day‑at‑a‑time climb. I’m grateful to God, my family, my friends, and the people who spoke truth with honesty and grace. This milestone simply reminds me that staying sober means choosing the right direction every single day.
One of the clearest voices in my journey has been John Steakley, former addict turned pastor and founder of Unbound Grace Ministries. John describes addiction as the ‘first mountain’—a mountain built on achievement, control, and the illusion that you can outrun what’s consuming you. His words helped me see that I had built that mountain myself.
Bottoming out wasn’t dramatic. It was the moment I finally admitted alcohol was controlling life outside of work. I’d heard other people’s testimonies—stories of quitting, stories of starting over—and realized I wanted to write my own. Asking for help was the first real step.
John talks about the ‘second mountain,’ the one I’m climbing now. It’s a mountain of humility, discipline, and forward motion. I’ve learned to control the substance. I’ve learned to handle frustration without letting it define me. I’m not perfect, but I’m present. And I’m not turning back.
If you’re reading this and wondering, ‘Do I have a problem?’ I encourage you to reach out to someone you trust. Help is real. Hope is real. Freedom is possible. And when you can say, ‘One year ago today, I stopped drinking,’ I’ll celebrate that moment with you.
Keep climbing. Your second mountain is waiting.
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